Thursday Throwbacks: images from the photo library. Enjoy.
Mutterings of a country hick.
Thursday Throwbacks: images from the photo library. Enjoy.
By Mauri Knott
Posted yesterday.
My Facebook this week is all about love.
Not because I am naïve. Not because I don’t have opinions. But because I am a moderate with friends who lean both left and right, and I am tired of the war we are waging against one another.
My grandpa was born on this day in 1926. One hundred years ago, the first year of what would later be called the “Silent Generation.”
He didn’t know it then, but those born that year would live
through World War II, the Korean War, Vietnam, the Persian Gulf, Afghanistan,
and Iraq.
He served his country for six of those years as a member of the U.S. Army and the National Guard.
As I reflect, I think the timing of his passing in 2019 was a blessing. Because this most recent war—the one we willingly play into every single day, would have been deeply disgusting to him.
You see, my Gramps was a man of God. Not God-fearing, I never once remember him being fearful. He celebrated God. He believed fiercely in grace, in joy, and in the love God showed for others.
Gramps never met a stranger.
After meeting someone new, he’d often ask [me], “Did you tell them you were Robert Naccarato’s granddaughter?”
He held relationships in the highest regard. Differences didn’t scare him or slow him down.
Despite being raised in rural Idaho in a migrant Italian community, he could have been narrow-minded or quick to judge, but he wasn’t.
He met people where they were and for who they were: hippies snowed in on the Bear Paw, the first African American family to move to town with six kids in tow, a cousin and her partner celebrating their nuptials at the Ranch, an immigrant priest with very broken English.
That same priest said something at my grandpa’s funeral that stopped me cold. As he listed all the ways Gramps loved others, devoted husband, caring father, proud grandpa, faithful follower, he paused, teared up, and said, “And he was my friend.”
He went on to explain that Gramps was one of the very first people to welcome him into a tiny town in north Idaho, and that he never expected such kindness from someone of my grandpa’s generation and demographic.
But there it is.
He didn’t just sit in the pew on Sunday and go through the motions with self-righteousness. He lived it. He loved his neighbor. He lived with humility. He showed his kids, grandkids, and great-grandkids that people come before judgment.
So once again today, I’m reflecting on LOVE, the love that was modeled for me and for my children.
Not as a political move.
Not as a talking point.
But as a choice.
Because if a man who lived through real wars could still choose relationship over righteousness and love over labels, then surely we can do the same.
The world doesn’t need louder sides; it needs better
neighbors.