by Brad
Stulberg
Fernando
Mendoza went from being a barely recruited 2-star prospect, to a third-string
college QB, to winning the Heisman trophy and College Football National
Championship.
It’s
cool to care. Be yourself and go all the way. In an era where people are afraid
to be called “cringe,” Mendoza led the Indiana Hoosiers’ historic turnaround
with his heart on his sleeve and a captivating earnestness.
After
leading the Hoosiers to an improbable Big 10 Championship over Ohio State,
Mendoza barely held back tears in B an emotional post-game interview, which had
a commentator opining, “Did Mendoza just lose the Heisman with that interview?”
A week
later, Mendoza won the Heisman Trophy. He cried during that speech, too.
He said,
“I want every kid out there who feels overlooked, underestimated, to know I was
you. I was that kid too. I was in your shoes. The truth is, you don’t need the
most stars, hype or rankings. You just need discipline, heart, and people who
believe in you and you need to believe in your own abilities."
Perhaps
Mendoza isn’t the best player in college football in spite of how much he
cares; perhaps he is the best player in college football because of how much he
cares. And that he isn’t scared to be seen caring.
Mendoza
didn’t waste time or energy playing a certain part. He needed every heartbeat
to rise from a little known afterthought to the best college football player in
the world.
The
point isn’t that we should try to be more like Mendoza.
It’s
that we waste so much time and energy worrying about what others think and
mimicking them instead of owning who we are and harnessing it for greatness.
The
variety of caring that living an excellent life requires is neither saccharine
nor solely focused on outcomes. It’s a process of laying it on the line and
giving something your full effort, and it must be renewed every day.
It means
that in success and even in failure you can be proud of the effort you gave,
the guts you showed, and the person you are becoming.
Fernando
Mendoza is a great model for young athletes (and really, all people).
Worrying
about what others think is an enormous black hole of energy. It keeps so many
on the sidelines and short of realizing their potential. Being comfortable with
who you are and giving it your all is a superpower.
At its
best, excellence is an expression of authenticity. You pour who you are into
what you do. You don’t need to fit someone else’s idea of what it means to be
great.
What you
need is to put in the work. Be yourself. And go all the way.









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