A lot of local folks won't like the article below.
In some minds, the Sandpoint area is much too welcoming because the gesture could bring in even more people.
In spite of that possibility, it's nice to know that we're generally characterized in a positive way.
I don't mind welcoming newcomers; in fact, I enjoy it a lot.
What I don't enjoy, however, is meeting face-to-face with folks who have felt the warm welcomes enough to move here, only to forget what prompted them to move here in the first place.
Example: walking past someone in a car or on foot on a country road and extending friendliness with a wave or hello only to have that person take the wind out of your welcome by moving right on past without any acknowledgement of your presence or your welcome.
This does happen.
It's noticeable.
I often want to tell people that friendliness, which they might interpret with suspicion because of where they came from, is almost always the sincere nature of our residents who have spent a lifetime waving and welcoming.
I exchanged texts just yesterday with a friend who felt bad that she had not acknowledged another individual earlier in the day because of a her own personal distraction.
She "wanted to make amends" for her oversight.
There's a common cliche we sadly hear too often these days when hideous behavior occurs, i.e. "this is not who we are."
Instead, for the most part in this community, the blend of friendliness, caring and welcoming natures IS who we are.
It doesn't cost a cent, whether you are a local or a newcomer, to smile or wave or spend some time talking with others.
Plus, it's often amazing how much such simple gestures can mean to the recipients.
We're all human beings no matter where we are from or where we live. It's nice to remind each other of our human qualities from time to time.
It's also nice that this positive trait within our community has been recognized.
https://bonnercountydailybee.com/news/2024/aug/06/city-recognized-for-welcoming-spirit/
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